Stuart and Kirstie perform in Broken Chords
Stuart and Kirstie perform Broken Chords – a musical story of love, loss and connection

The Broken Chords Story

A musical story of two people trying to stay connected through loss.
Told through original songs, spoken word, and storytelling.

We hope audiences experience Broken Chords as an unusual and enjoyable event – part gathering, part performance, a celebration and a moment of community.

At the heart of a Broken Chords event is our seventy-five minute long piece of ‘gig theatre’ in which we share our story. It’s an honest and true account of how we, as a couple, learned to live with grief and move forward together after the sudden death of our son. The story, told through songs, explores how songwriting helped us stay connected and understand what was happening as we grieved differently.

It’s not a prescription for how to live after loss, rather a message that hope, joy and connection still exist beyond tragedy, and a chance to talk about a subject often avoided.

Broken Chords in performance at the Gregson Arts and Community Centre in Lancaster, May 2026
Broken Chords in performance at the Gregson Arts and Community Centre in Lancaster, May 2026

What’s the show like?

People are often surprised at how different the experience of attending Broken Chords is to what they imagined.

The video below, filmed at Stretford Public Hall during Greater Manchester’s Month of Hope, offers a glimpse of the songs, humour and storytelling at the heart of Broken Chords.

This informal recording was made for our own review and captures the live performance and audience response. Picture quality is limited.


What happens in the room

In Broken Chords, we invite audiences into something that feels like our living room, where the personal welcome, hospitality and time to talk are as much part of the experience as the show itself.

People arrive expecting actors and a stage. Instead they meet us as ourselves: Stuart and Kirstie. They gather around tables, close to us, with a coffee or a glass of wine, and sit and listen as we share our story. There is sadness, but also laughter, music, the complications of loss and a sense of hope. Afterwards, those who want to stay and talk can do just that. Because it’s not just our story; we all have stories of loss.

While the show tackles a difficult subject, we’ve worked hard to ensure the way we tell the story is truthful, includes light and shade, surprises and humour, and ultimately offers hope. We also look after the people that attend and can signpost people to support, if they need it.

Broken Chords in Silverdale Gaskell Hall
The living room welcome in Silverdale’s Gaskell Hall, July 2026

The story so far

We began writing Broken Chords to make sense of life-changing loss. We never imagined it would become theatre that helped others start conversations of their own.

Initial performances took place in village halls and community centres in Burton-in-Kendal, Kendal, Lancaster, Kirkby Lonsdale and Silverdale. Over 340 people paid to attend and their response was extraordinary: overwhelmingly positive, passionate and moving.

Audience Quote "Courageous, well-crafted, beautifully performed with such care and generosity for the audience"

Many stayed afterwards to talk, sharing reactions and their own experiences. Our show may be rooted in tragedy, but audiences found hope, humour and recognition of challenges we all face. They told us it was really a story of love and connection.

For some, the experience prompted a resolve to start conversations of their own.

Audience Quote: "This show has made me resolve to talk to my son about the difficult issues he faces."
Audience Quote: “This show has made me resolve to talk to my son about the difficult issues he faces.”

Beyond our own backyard

The response to our initial try-out led to invitations to perform in Stretford for NHS Greater Manchester Month of Hope and in The Grand Theatre, Blackpool at the Good Grief Festival, taking the work beyond our local audiences, and receiving a similarly strong audience response.

Broken Chords in the Grand Theatre Studio, part of the Blackpool Good Grief Festival - October 2026
Broken Chords in The Grand Theatre Blackpool Studio, part of the town’s Good Grief Festival, October 2026

What’s next?

Audiences tell us the message at the heart of Broken Chords is important, timely and relevant. That it deserves to travel beyond local audiences.

In 2027 we’re planning to find out how and where the work can make a contribution, working with different audiences, and developing plans for wider rural and community touring.

If you’d like us to come and perform at a venue near you or as part of a festival, conference or community event , please contact us and let’s talk.

Broken Chords getting ready for performance in Kendal
Broken Chords getting ready for performance in Castle Street Community Centre, Kendal, May 2026

The creative team

Before Broken Chords, we spent fifteen years directing The Family Adventure Project, an award-winning website and YouTube channel where we shared inspiring stories of adventurous family travel through writing, photography, video and social media.

Stuart and Kirstie, founders of The Family Adventure Project, writers and performers of Broken Chords

Broken Chords takes our creative collaboration into live performance, drawing on our different voices and a shared determination to tell complex stories in ways that are accessible, honest and engaging.

Stuart Wickes – co-writer, songwriter, musician, performer, producer

Stuart is a leadership development practitioner, songwriter, pianist and guitarist. He co-runs two community choirs and designs and facilitates learning programmes, including for the BBC. Broken Chords brings together his musical practice, writing and experience of helping people engage in meaningful conversations.

Stuart sings the song 'So Alone' from Broken Chords
Stuart rehearsing the song ‘So Alone’

Kirstie Pelling – co-writer, songwriter, performer

Kirstie is a writer and published author whose experience includes feature writing, writing and performing spoken-word poetry in schools and at conferences. She brings writing, choral singing and work in educational settings to Broken Chords, shaping its stories and the relationship between performance and audience.

Kirstie Pelling performs Broken Chords
Kirstie performs Hush

Joe Sumsion – director and dramaturg

Joe is a theatre director and former Artistic Director of The Dukes, Lancaster, with extensive experience of new writing and higher education. He has worked with us to develop the script and performance, bringing a professional outside eye to its structure, pacing and theatrical possibilities. His experience and faith in us have been critical to getting Broken Chords off the page and in front of people.

Joe Sumsion with some of the Broken Chords team in rehearsal
Joe Sumsion with the Broken Chords team in rehearsal in Burton in Kendal